Skinny Jeans Or Boyfriend Jeans - WWAHW (Which Would Audrey Hepburn Wear)?
By Melissa - Friday, July 03, 2015
Melissa Cheah - February 27th, 2015
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Yes, I am quoting myself. No, I don't do it often. Maybe, I'll reprise this again some day.
It's just… one of the better things which I've written, over the years. And, it is something every woman should know and take to heart.
There is something bewitchingly feminine about a woman in skinny jeans. It hugs, lifts and tucks in all the right places. In essence, it makes my tree trunks (read: thighs) look like stick pins. Scour and search till the ends of the earth if you need to for the right pair, because once you've found The Pair; trust me, you've unearthed your pot of gold…
So, while the current trend veers towards boyfriend jeans and bell-bottoms, I'm sticking with my skinny jeans, thankyouverymuch. Don't take my word for it, look at what this dood said…
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| Read about the full post here: http://www.whowhatwear.com/real-men-skinny-jeans. |
I don't know who you are, Alexander - We'll probably never meet each other, I don't know what you do (you might or might not be a fashion guru) but dood, have you got taste… And bringing in Audrey Hepburn - she is grace and elegance personified - to weigh in on your rationale? You are definitely boyfriend material, in my books.
Skinny jeans (or as I like to call them, skinnies), forever and ever, amen.
2015 Favourites - Red Carpet Gowns At The 2015 Met Gala
By Melissa - Tuesday, May 05, 2015
This year, the theme of the night was Chinese Whispers: Tales of the East in Art, Film and Fashion, so the gowns were heavily embellished with floral motifs, pops of red and touches of gold.
Here are some of my favourite gowns from last night's annual ball:
1. Jessica Chastain looked every bit of the (golden) goddess that she is in Givenchy Haute Couture by Riccardo Tisci and Piaget jewelry. Totally digging her old school Hollywood glamour make-up and hairdo too.
2. Rosie Huntington-Whiteley dazzled in an asymmetrical nude shimmery dress by Atelier Versace, with some serious cut-outs and a sexy thigh-grazing slit.
3. Reese Witherspoon was a ravishing siren in a red Jason Wu dress, Tiffany & Co. jewelry and Charlotte Olympia heels.
4. Kerry Washington was the belle of the ball in Prada's clove pink silk faille open-back gown with bow accented shoulders, Harry Winston jewelry, Prada clutch and sandals.
5. When in doubt, go with McQueen. Bee Shaffer was stunning perfection in Alexander McQueen's custom burgundy embroidered gown. Major love for the dainty cherry blossom and crane print on her oxblood-hued dress.
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For real this time - Gonna get started on that couture gown fund and workout routine ASAP...
The Week In Review - Dance Again & Bloom, The Creative Process + Daily Essentials
By Melissa - Saturday, January 31, 2015
This week has been many things and I've been doing a lot of soul-searching, quite a bit of self-reflection and I've been reminding myself of this little something that I wrote:
Winter has past, Summer has come, it's time to dance again and bloom.
Or, in other words: Let go, move on and live life.
So, this week's post isn't the ushe - there is no day-to-day updates - but here are some pics on how my week went...
1. Gluten-free banana oatmeal pancakes.
Made them again this week. They're gluten-free, sugar-free and they fill me up pretty nicely (I only have two small slices for breakfast). Oh, they're totally yummy too...
2. Mangoes and blueberries breakfast bowl.
While we're on the subject of health and breakfast, my summery-hued fruit bowl...
3. Celebrated Dee's birthday.
We had an early birthday celebration for him last Saturday and together with my two uncles, we managed to successfully surprise him with an unexpected (for him) gift.
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| Birthday boy with his very own iPhone 6+. |
4. I wear my emotions on my face.
Story of my life, ladies and gentlemen...
The only perk? It keeps annoyances at bay when I'm in a beastly mood.
5. Daily essentials
- Aelwen, my 13-inch MacBook Air
- EOS lip balm (chapped lips are NEVER sexy)
- Aloe vera juice with manuka honey and chia seeds
- A dash of boldness for the day
6. The Dictionary and Thesaurus are my guys.
D understands and supports me like no other, whereas T shows me that there are so many ways to convey what I'd like to say and I never have to stop at one.
They are my muses, my inspiration and my forever loves.
They are also the ones that I turn to when I am facing a writer's block.
7. The struggle is real. Oh-so-real.
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| Content adapted from Pinterest. Redesigning, mine. |
The drafts in my current work folder is probably #3 and I feel like #4. Might as well toss them into the bin.
Not to worry, #5 is just right around the corner.
The Weekend That Was - Kyra & Ryan, Rose Updo + Amazing Sunday
By Melissa - Tuesday, January 20, 2015
Saturday (Jan 17th, 2015)
AM: Brunch date with Mi-Chelle, Kyra and Ryan.
PM: Soul mate's Penang wedding reception.
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| Noir dress, red lips and rose-inspired updo. |
Sunday (Jan 18th, 2015)
AM: Church.
Packed house, amazing service. The message was timely and it spoke right into our hearts. Thankful to be in a House where His presence is always honoured.
PM: Family time.
PM: Family time.
The Week In Review - Branded Eyebags, A Trip To The Printer's, XXX Drink + CM's Christmas Party 2014
By Melissa - Friday, December 12, 2014
Monday (Dec 8th, 2014)
AM: Snailed all the way to my cubicle, hoping to shake off leftover dementia from a packed weekend.
I was lamenting about the bags under my eyes (and all the longtime sufferers of rest scarcity say...) to a friend and after
Tuesday (Dec 9th, 2014)
AM: Went to Prai with my colleagues to visit the printer's. Did a colour-check to ensure that the tones are accurate, signed off on it and finally, *this* project is going on print... *sheds tears of joy*
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| Snuck a photo of the fancy printer in motion. |
Wednesday (Dec 10th, 2014)
AM: Work.
Noon: Lunch plate - Mushroom soup and garlic bread (made with ciabatta).
PM: Jap fix with the bestie.
Thursday (Dec 11th, 2014)
AM: Downed my vitamin water and nearly spurted out a mouthful. The cause?
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The cheeky text on my drink bottle.
Ever been seduced by a fruit? Get ready for your first time, lover. Our three way blend of acai, blueberry and pomegranate canoodles perfectly with C and B vitamins that might even tease the teeny bits of your inner biology. We've seen you looking at us. You're already imagining what it's like to be caressed by our blend of beautiful berries, aren't you? We'll squeeze you till the pips squeak. Triple the berry means three times the seduction - So good it's xxx rated.
Creative writing, laced with witty xxx innuendos. Totally made my morning.
PM: Armed with a mug of hot sencha and plugged in to one of my favourite jazz artistes, I decided to take some time alone, not think or rationalize anything and just... be.
Friday (Dec 12th, 2014)
AM: Breakfast bowl - Fresh peach and a muesli bar.
PM: Later tonight - CM's annual Christmas Party, followed by gift exchange.
My contribution...
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| Handmade gift tag. |
The Weekend That Was - First Christmas Party of 2014 + Wedding Dinner
By Melissa - Monday, December 08, 2014
Saturday (Dec 6th, 2014)
AM: The first (since-I-can't-recall-when) Saturday that I'm able to sleep in without worrying about needing to handle a to-do later in the day.
Tossed and rolled around in bed till 10am, got up, took a warm shower and set off for a last-min shopping trip on my own.
PM: First Christmas party of the year, expedited by 3 weeks for my cousin.
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| Home-cooked dinner spread. Grainy pic because of the dimmed lighting. |
My aunt outdid herself and made THREE types of dessert...
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| Chocolate Hazelnut cake. |
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| Apple cheesecake. |
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| Banana cream pie. |
Sunday (Dec 7th, 2014)
AM: Church.
PM: Godbrother's wedding dinner.
Donned a cocktail dress which I managed to get on a steal just a few days before the day. Fell utterly in love with the thigh-high slit on the dress.
The Weekend That Was - Complimentary Facial by New York SS + Laksa Party
By Melissa - Monday, December 01, 2014
Saturday (Nov 29th, 2014)
AM: A facial session treat, courtesy of New York Skin Solutions (NYSS).
One of the consultants from NYSS rang me up last week, offered her congratulatory wishes and informed me that I was one of the winners (NYSS celebrated their 12th anniversary the week before) for a free facial session at their centre.
I checked my schedule, set a date and on Saturday morning, lived it up a little.
After a quick consultation to determine my skin type, I was whisked into a room with dimmed lighting and was asked to change into a robe.
The beautician entered the room awhile later, and my sweet escape from the world began...
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2 fuss-free hours away from Aurelia Bea, my skin was getting all the TLC it deserved and there was light Christmas jazz lulling in the air... Ahhh, this really is the life...
PM: Laksa party with our family friends.
I wasn't particularly fond of laksa, so I only had a tiny bowl of soup (minus the noodles and vegetables) but I was greatly enthused over the round-the-table conversation with the adults.
Sunday (Nov 30th, 2014)
AM: Church.
PM: Dinner with our relatives, who drove down from SP to pay us a visit.
Friday Funday - Field Trip Across Penang For Work 2.0
By Melissa - Friday, October 17, 2014
Due to an unexpected turn of events earlier this week, the workload for this project has tripled (it was already a handful to begin with) and a plan had to be drawn up and put into motion, stat.
Which is why I was on the road again today, my team in tow, under the scorching sun for more than 8 hours. My skin feels parched and I think it is slightly seared... the price that I pay for work (and for skipping the application of sunscreen).
Here are more pics of Penang, an orient with a kaleidoscope of history, religion and race...
Which is why I was on the road again today, my team in tow, under the scorching sun for more than 8 hours. My skin feels parched and I think it is slightly seared... the price that I pay for work (and for skipping the application of sunscreen).
Here are more pics of Penang, an orient with a kaleidoscope of history, religion and race...
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The Weekend That Was - Chanel Launch Party, Project PLAYDATE + Cutest Munchkins
By Melissa - Monday, October 13, 2014
Saturday (Oct 11th, 2014)
AM: A speckle of spoiling, courtesy of Chanel. Read more about it *here*.
Noon: Dashed from where I was, endured the crazy Saturday afternoon traffic and reached Mi-Chelle's to help out with the project which we are working on. I'll share a little more about it real soon, but for now... a sneak peek...
PM: By the time the session drew to a close, it was already evening. Before I left, I snuck into bed with two of the cutest munchkins of all time, cuddled them in my arms and read the story of Noah and The Ark to them, twice.
Sunday (Oct 12th, 2014)
AM: Worship led for church.
PM: Dinner with The Family.
Chanel's Christmas Collection Launch Party
By Melissa - Saturday, October 11, 2014
Received an invitation for this party several weeks back and in spite of my busy schedule, it was impossible to pass on this offer so I gleefully agreed to attend it.
After this week's full-on psycho work handling, I'm pretty over the moon about this morning's speckle of spoiling.
The event was from 10:30am till 12:30pm at Rasa Sayang Resort and Spa, Penang.
After this week's full-on psycho work handling, I'm pretty over the moon about this morning's speckle of spoiling.
The event was from 10:30am till 12:30pm at Rasa Sayang Resort and Spa, Penang.
There were canapes and pitchers of fresh fruit juice in every corner of the ballroom for us (the guests) to help ourselves to.
A little while later, we were introduced to Chanel's latest skincare products and this year's Christmas make-up collection. And I must say, I already have my eye on a few of the items in the collection.
After learning about the products and testing out the collection (love the wearable colours), we were given a crash course on wine.
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| Roderick, the wine sommelier. |
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| Pinot Noir for breakfast. I could get used to this. |


























































