I really like this.

Not quite suprising, some of her invaluable advice shared are spot-on and affirms that I am on the right track as well as I have given others fitting advice for the right path.

Fellow genteel women, my sisters-in-arms, gorgeous goddesses - Listen up, and listen good.

• Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
  
  
• Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
  
  
• Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
  
  
• If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't 'be friends'.
  
  
• If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
  
  
• Don't stay because you think "It will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  
  
• Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
  
  
• Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
  
  
• NEVER let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
  
  
• You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
  
  
• Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or is in a better job.
  
  
• DO NOT make him into a quasi-god. He is a man; nothing more, nothing less.
  
  
• NEVER let a man define who you are.
  
  
• NEVER borrow someone else's man.
  
  
• If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
  
  
• You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is a two-way street.
  
  
• You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage.
  Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
  
  
• You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
  
  
• Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
  
  The Holy Grail of advices?
  
  
• NEVER move into his mother's house.